talked to ISP when the ports were open and i just gave up on them ,
the basically told me to disable the HW firewall !!!!!! i quote what he said to me " you don't have to use the firewall disable it "
also when i took the Routers to the D-Link repair center " he didn't know what is an open port "
anyway i don't have a static IP
Didn't we speak a while back when you thought your computer was hacked?
yeah and i reinstall OS on all of my machine building a more rough security setups and very paranoid common sense
anyway I stopped using my DSL till further investigations
I tried another router form the same brand those the same i talked about in DSLreport forum
but till today i cant fix them ....
temporally i stopped most of the important Internet activity i have " collage and everything else

if you know what i mean " they both show the same symptoms
so what shall i do now ?
Reset the Router already been done !
Refirm the router ! done
strengthen the setup by password etc ! done
re install windows ! Done
seek help on forum " a while back " ! done
kill my self ! not yet
anyway i was thinking about a way on combating this problem " by buying a new router and modifying the Firmware Rom to install a lock switch on it "
but it's highly unlikely to work without knowing the HW detail of the router + it will void the warranty
anyway thanks for help ....