And also less emphasis should be placed on discovering who you are and more on facilitating the emergence of what you'd like to experience (read that in Cosmo; it must be true).
So, rather than "discovery of thy self" (Dr. Suess: "Sam I AM") creating good experiences based on my self's desire is the plan of action according to the wisdom of Cosmopolitan. Hm. OK.
I'm IN!
By the way, Hello & Welcome to you, ohcipala! May joining help in your..