I am using the latest XDM 2020 version and i think it is perfect competitor for IDM.XDM was buggy in the past, request you to try the latest version, it's much better. Also there is no comparison for the video download feature between XDM & FDM as XDM allows support for more websites and is only matched by maybe Eagleget or IDM.
I first came across this software when it was featured as top pick at Best Free BitTorrent Client. Have tried both qBittorrent & Tixati, and the advanced scheduler of Tixati is the major reason why I stick with it, as I need to set each torrent file to run at specified times during the day depending on the sizes. I couldn't find this feature in qBittorrent. Also speed-wise I found Tixati to take the edge.actually i think nobody use tixati because we never heard this before in 2020 from now on qbittorrent i know its my fave torrent client im not force you to anyway