I'm with you! I really wish that HIPS would do that.
Unfortunately, the alerts will almost never tell you whether the action is malicious or not. They can only tell you whether it is *potentially* malicious, and if you block everything in that category, your computer will become unusable.
The only standalone HIPS these days is SpyShelter. Download the trial version, and try it out. SpyShelter has a nice HIPS, and its forte is anti-keylogging protection. It is weak on anti-ransomware, though.
ReHIPs is a great program, and definitely one of my favorites, but it does not have a fully developed HIPS like SpyShelter and COMODO and the others do. The HIPS is pretty rudimentary, because the main strength of the software lies in its isolation capabilities.