To add further to Earths post, a good place for Custom W7 VS is here: http://browse.deviantart.com/customization/skins/windows7/visualstyle/ Do make sure however you read the comments since sometimes there might be a bug or a feature etc.
Also, some VS will have additional DLL files, which for that you will need to have the Take Ownership feature. <-- that is also required to replace the system icons of connectivity, sound alerts etc that I was using (token icon style)
You could achieve the Take Ownership via reg edit or via some tweaking tools for windows 7.
Also, I am one of the users that uses UxStyle Core style of patching.
@McLovin that is not the door2door version is it?