elliotcroft said:
Trying to refer people is giving us a bad reputation.
The post on AVG forums was removed.
We can really only refer people on sites where we are active on, otherwise they think of us as spammers. I don't like trying to do this.
Yep. If you are going to try and generate interest in the site, never ask for a referral, even if it's a forum you're known on. That is spammy.
It's a bit like posting an affiliate link to an application, so if someone follows your link and ends up purchasing, you get a cut. Very sketchy...
A referral
is gaining you something, even if it's just a number next to your name. Many people are going to be openly hostile about such tactics, as you have noticed.
(This is the problem with a ranking system that relies on referrals, it's asking your users to spam relentlessly, which is likely not going to do much for your image)
Just promote the forum, not yourself... A simple link with a post saying there is a new security oriented forum that has opened up is sufficient. If somebody wants to use your name as a referrer, that's their prerogative, but asking for it is only asking for trouble.
In fact, I purposefully didn't mention any names when I registered because I don't agree with the promotion practice. :dodgy: